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To 16:08:43 -- Well, it's not implausible for a man to love two women: it's just that he obviously must love them in different ways. With Roxy, he had a long-enough relationship for genuine love to develop -- i.e. get past the infatuation stage. Ordinarily, he might have a basis for marriage with her -- while with Farrah, one can't be entirely sure if he's still simply infatuated. The trouble comes in not knowing the difference between love and infatuation -- or thinking that feelings last (love is not a feeling; rather, it's an ACT OF WILL). While one might be justified in breaking up with a girlfriend because he's no longer *in love* with her, it becomes an entirely different matter with a permanent commitment to a wife. I'd like to believe that Jon broke up with his ex for reasons other than no longer being *in love*. Evidently, Roxy wasn't quite up to being a baseball wife -- and Jon didn't want to give up his career, to submerge his life in hers. This sort of thing happens all the time -- where two people are unable to take their commitment to a higher level, for reasons that their career trajectories don't quite match. |
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Wed, 23 Jul 2008 22:18:58 GMT" Posts like yours are really funny. You are obviously not in nor have you ever had a relationship. Enjoy judging other people's relationships since that's probably the closest you'll ever get. lol |
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How can Jon have been sending messages to Roxy about how much he adored her if he was with Farrah?"
If you can ask that you're either very young or very naive." ----------------------------- Neither. I just happen to know that most men send the signs...show them in little ways that most women choose to ignore. I am SURE Jon let Miss Roxy know he was done with her ass a long time before he finally ended things wihtout actually saying it. She just CHOSE not to see the signs. ALSO - if they were long distance the entire last 2 years they were together, how could she have believed ANYTHING he said? LOL That means she was DUMB. I am certain, he knew and SHE KNEW it was over but that Roxy chose to turn a blind eye to the fact that her man had moved on. |
| I always figured most of the people here were makin' shit up either to amuse themselves or 'cause they're crazy and think they know what goes on in the lives of total stranges. Most of the time it's the same tired lines that get repeated over and over. But the emails and texts is a new detail. I was just curious if you know what you're talkin' about, or if you're one of the crazies. |
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How is it anyone here knows anything they're writing? Why would someone with inside information reveal how they get it? |
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Wed, 23 Jul 2008 16:08:43 If you're in Boston and no relation to Roxy, how is it you know her feeling for him and details of his actions just prior to their break up? |
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"Guys pull away when they fall in love with another. They just do. They dont keep telling a soon to be ex they love her. FACT." LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL |
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How can Jon have been sending messages to Roxy about how much he adored her if he was with Farrah?" If you can ask that you're either very young or very naive. |
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How can Jon have been sending messages to Roxy about how much he adored her if he was with Farrah? i dont believe that. Guys pull away when they fall in love with another. They just do. They dont keep telling a soon to be ex they love her. FACT. |
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I'm in Boston and am no relation to Roxy. Nice try though. And I didn't say he didn't love Farrah. One would hope he loves her if he proposed to her. |
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What I know is that Jon adores his wife to be like no other he has cared about. It was meant to be. Get over it Lil sis he moved on. What he had with Roxy was puppy love. I think this is the real deal. Farrah is a beautiful girl and she loves Jon with all her heart. |
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What I know: Roxy adored Jon and continued to even after he dumped her. Jon was sending Roxy emails and text messages professing how much HE adored her even up to the day he broke up with her. Jon has changed. Whether it was the cancer or going to Greenville - he's a different person than he was prior to August of 2006 and it isn't much for the better. Believe it or not - it's all fact. |
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To 04:49:07 -- You pretty much hit the nail on the head. But for his cancer crisis (and how it affected his love life), Lester would basically be just another MLB player. After all, every person has a special story to make him different from others of his own *kind." I basically try to be fair to all sides: I wish the best for Jon, and want to think positively of Farrah (that she's not some "groupie" or "golddigger", that the two are made and meant for each other) -- while at the same time sympathizing with Roxy. As an outsider, I obviously can't know all the details of the story, or the internal dynamics in any relationship: many points of judgment need to be suspended, for that reason. At best, I can play devil's advocate (who knows? Maybe Jon DID propose to his ex; it's just that she rejected him ...). Like I said, I just hope that Farrah truly loves him, as Roxy undoubtedly did ... |
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11:14..you hope Farrah pays "them?" It IS Farrah LOL be real here. Roxy was so much better for him. Just a prettier girl. |
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he is getting married? my ass. he'll be cheating in a year if they even make it down the aisle. see lenny dinardo -- BUST! he has no reason to get married so young. NONE! |
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Ah, more deleting. Hope Farrah pays you girls well. |
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Red Sox halt skid behind rested Lester 07/22/2008 12:59 AM ETBy Ian Browne / MLB.com
SEATTLE -- This was not one of those cases where rest turned to rust. Instead, it was a matter of an energized Jon Lester leading the Red Sox to a badly-needed, 4-0 victory over the Mariners on Monday night at Safeco Field. |
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no one would be talking all that much about him except for the no-hitter. Yeah but he hasn't given up a run so far tonight though. So he's doing pretty good tonight .Jon Lester has only walked 8 in his last 8 starts... I don't know about you but many males admire him. Women hate on each other and they hate the man if they don't care for the girl he's with. It's what give women a bad name, the constant envy and jealousy they have of each other. Then they drag the man down with it. Most people that have a problem with Lester are catty women. It's certainly not any real true Red Sox fans. Just check out the Red Sox board. The only negative things you hear about the guy is here and on the gossip sox board. |
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Lester is a good pitcher. He's no all star or future hall of famer. If he didn't have cancer, no one would be talking all that much about him except for the no-hitter. Truth is, whether people want to believe it or not, that he's engaged to someone who is willing to live the life of the significant other of a major league baseball player. That's not an easy decision to make and he, obviously, knew Roxy wasn't willing to give up parts of her life she'd have to in order to be that person. Farrah is. There's nothing deep or "interesting" about it. |
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In the first place, many agree that his love life is just about the most interesting thing about Lester. Honey that is the biggest pile of b.s. I've heard since I've been here. It is your own delusional obsession on Lester/Farah relationship. People that aren't obsessed like you that are fans of his or people that know his story of his miraculous healing would be the first to tell you it's his battle with cancer and to come back and not just pitch but be a part of the pitching crew that won the world series. Where have you been with he made Red Sox history, still going over the past of his ex and his relationship I guess, but that was the most talked about and coverage all over the baseball world. You only wish the only interesting thing about him is his past relationship because you are stuck in the past and won't move on. It's very sad and you who needs help. Last time I saw Lester he was happy and doing just fine. I doubt if he's sitting home worried and have sleepless nights over a past relationship. He's engaged and has a fiancee. What is it you don't get? You know what? You sound about as crazy as the Joker from Batman each comment I read you write. You need help or maybe somebody needs to warn the Red Sox organization about you. |
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In the first place, many agree that his love life is just about the most interesting thing about Lester. And it's inevitable that there is some mention about his ex-girlfriend -- since he was with her for a long time (at least five years), and therefore had a relationship with a degree of commitment. As such, it's quite natural to make comparisons between him and Farrah. Especially since he's engaged to the latter: isn't it entirely understandable that questions are raised -- as to whether Farrah truly loves Jon (as Roxy did)? Whether she has it in her to make a truly devoted commitment? Or whether (God forbid) she's the *groupie* that some keep insisting on characterizing her as? As some kind of golddigger who's after Jon only for his fame and (perceived potential for) wealth? |
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Funny. No one has talked about the ex yet YOU all bring it up again. |
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By all accounts, Jon's ex (Roxy) loved him deeply -- despite not
being in a binding relationship. And the impression is that he, too,
loved her; he just didn't want to make the ultimate commitment of
marriage to her ... |
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of course, he probably doesn't have THAT much money, as of now). Are you insane? Yeah right, I guess pro sports entertainers don't really make that much. He totally only drives a S500 now I bet.. poor bastard couldn't even afford the S55 AMG. By all accounts, Jon's ex (Roxy) loved him deeply -- despite not
being in a binding relationship. And the impression is that he, too,
loved her; he just didn't want to make the ultimate commitment of
marriage to her ... |
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Seth Andrea McCoy use to run it. |
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who is the original board run by anyone know |
| haha thats too funny...cleat chasers |
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The ONtheDL chicks created a blog last year and pretended they were baseball wives. http://itsasecretsogushaboutit.blogspot.com/ They took down all their posts (and haven't updated the OntheDl blog - although they did once and ended up taking THAT post down as well) because they were found out. |
| what "Wives" blog/website are you talking about? |
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13:04....Randy, dont you run this board? That post is very unprofessional?? I am kind of disapponited?? |
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To 01:08:17 (Wednesday) -- I don't hate Lester; on the contrary, I wish him the best. That's why I'm concerned about the engagement. I really don't know what to make of all the characterizations of Farrah as some kind of *groupie* (people will say this simply because she dated ONE ballplayer before Jon) who achieved her ultimate goal by nabbing a celebrity MLB player. That's certainly one heck of a conquest -- although I'm not sure if Jon is exactly what one might call a *prize catch.* I just hope that Farrah truly loves him (for what he is) -- and is not some golddigger who's after Jon for his fame and wealth (of course, he probably doesn't have THAT much money, as of now). After all, marriage is supposed to be about loving, honoring, and cherishing for better or for worse, in sickness and in health, until death do them apart ... By all accounts, Jon's ex (Roxy) loved him deeply -- despite not being in a binding relationship. And the impression is that he, too, loved her; he just didn't want to make the ultimate commitment of marriage to her ... |
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| go Jon Lester!! ur such a cute person!!! we love you so much from the Philippines. I hope that he will the Philippines someday.... Good luck pretty boy!!! |
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Sure she did. She chose the one who was definitely going to the bigs. |
| congrats to farrah and jon. the minor leaguer she used to was dustin kelly and rumor he had "one" in every town so i think she made the right choice. |
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It's interesting that the "wives" anti-groupie blog (which most of us knew was really run by the groupies) is owning up to it now. Guess they got bagged. Which is just proof that the groupies have nothing better to do than defend their behavior and pretend to be something they never will be. |
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The people who "hate" know what kind of person she is. And how are you better? Keep putting them down on a gossip site that's known to sprue hate and gossip about a players' girlfriend and the player? No one really cares to be honest. Life goes on and it seems your life is filled with obsession. Do you have a crush on Farrah? Maybe you're jealous of Lester and have a lesbian crush on her.LOL I think she's taken |
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The people who "hate" know what kind of person she is. She set her sights on a baseball player and that's exactly what she got. |
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I find it interesting that although the articles in print mention
Farrah Johnson by name, the video clippings do not. IS IT for certain
that Farrah is indeed Jon Lester's fiancee? And not some other gal he
took up with after a possible breakup? I know it's probably what you wish, but it's Farrah. Even the Boston news site called her by her name when they congratulated the both. Honestly I don't know why people keep hating |
