Jeremy Shockey

I would like to add to the blogger's argument that she's in control.  The photographer has already stated that she answers his text messages and she has used his twitter account to send out tweets supposedly from Shockey.   The rushed wedding was  her doing.  She didn't want to take the chance on a break up before she landed her prize.  As far as her career, she was supposed to be taking design classes at the city college. But, she was always dropping out to go to NC for 4 weeks or to fly off to Vegas, or the Virgin Islands, etc. Her real "career" goal was to land a rich sports player and she did everything she could to achieve that. The photographer mentioned her reputation as a "sports figure call girl." That could be true or not but the truth is that she's been hanging out in clubs, illeglly I might add, since she was in high school. She is not inexperienced and she's not some dumb Latina either. This is a cold, calculating woman with a plan. Don't under estimate her.

Reply-to:I totally agree and I would take it a step further and say that Shockey married a 21 year old recent high school graduate as a control mechanism.  Shes financial dependent on him and has no career establishment.  If she gets pregnant soon, hell have even more control over her life.  In other words, I dont think she has a sense of self like an educated woman would.  She thinks she has snagged a rich NFL football player but I dont think shes aware of his motives. 

Actually she is the one in control, not him.  No, she is not drugging him nor is she a witch.  But, just look at their history, she's the one who "wears the pants in the family".  That has been confirmed by a friend of his, we call the photographer.  Yes, he did choose her, but she has manipulated and controlled him since day one.  She's the one who gave him the ultimatum, "marry me or else," and he complied.  She's the one who has had him groveling for her approval since that last big fight they had.  Go back and look at her and his tweets.   She's the one who called the shots. She's the one who rushed to NC when rumors about him and Emily Maynard surfaced. Don't be fooled by her age, she's known exactly what she's doing and J might think he's in control but she's been in control all along. 

Reply-to:I totally agree and I would take it a step further and say that Shockey married a 21 year old recent high school graduate as a control mechanism.  Shes financial dependent on him and has no career establishment.  If she gets pregnant soon, hell have even more control over her life.  In other words, I dont think she has a sense of self like an educated woman would.  She thinks she has snagged a rich NFL football player but I dont think shes aware of his motives. 

Reply-to:You know, I like Shockey; he seems like an interesting guy, and (until recently) was very passionate about football, which made him exciting to watch. But everyone is blaming D. for this travesty of a marriage. The fact is, HE chose HER. Posters have may such ridiculous comments - spell casting witch, and that she drugged him -how silly. Its disrespectful to Shockey not to make him take responsibility for the person he chose to marry. Shockey has always been focused on how a woman looks; its THE most important factor for him, and, like many people, he associates beauty with goodness, truth, etc... thats why our stereotypes of things like demons are ugly, because theyre evil, so they have to be ugly, right? Hes been a sucker for hot, attention seeking Latinas who dress provocatively since his days with Vida Guerra. Someone wondered previously what his preconceived notion of a wife was; D. is it. A hot, party loving Latina that can show him a good time. Because he thinks shes beautiful, and therefore good, kind, etc... because of her beauty, being a good mother and all the rest will just fall into place without giving it any thought now.

Failure is a forgone conclusion.  I think what most of us who follow this blog were concerned about, as fans of his,  was how much she was going to hurt him in the process.  How much money will she milk from him or drain from his accounts?  How emotionally scarred will he be when it's all said and done?  That's the unknown about this whole affair.

Reply-to:I would think his childhood means he doesnt have a real frame of reference for a healthy husband/wife relationship. IMO, his primary reason for choosing D. is physical attraction and physical attractiveness. He tries to couch it in other terminology - most amazing person, things like that, but shes his type to a T, and she looks good on his arm. Unless the days and weeks to come bring more depth and a stronger foundation to their marriage, I think its bound to fail.

I wonder what J's preconceived idea of a wife is (was.)  Everyone has an idea of what they want their spouse to be.  Does (did) he want someone who would take care of him and eventually their children.  You know, someone who would have a hot meal on the table in the evening.  Make him chicken soup when he wasn't feeling well.  Or, did he always just want a companion?   I would think that he would want to provide as normal a family life as possible for himself and his children.  I say that based on what I know about his childhood.  I'm just curious how much has he had to compromise his dreams. 

Reply-to:I do not know if she cooks, I know he has always had a.chef that prepares his meals. Otherwise they eat out. Its too new for us to know any of that. There is a cl eaning service, shes not mopping floors and doing windows. She is a companion, not a housewife. -photographer

I wouldn't be surprised.  It would be to her advantage to keep anyone away who could influence J in a way other than what she wants.  She's a controler.  All signs point to that.   She is capable of doing anything to ensure that her scheme comes to fruition. 

Reply-to:Well it seems honeymoon plans were answered. Of course the plan is to travel its what he does in the off season. I do agree this could hurt his chances of pick up, but Drew is still in Miami and working for him. You can be not so sure about the uniform tweet, but I am sure. I am happy that Dani put out their that friendships dont matter about time, etc, just who makes it to his future. Im wondering if theres a list on who she is allowing to be part of his life.

He just tweeted that they are heading for Jamaica for "some alone time".  Then in 2 weeks they are off for Bora Bora.  I have a feeling this is going to be his life, traveling from one place to another because she likes to travel.  It also seems he's not giving himself any chance to be picked up by an NFL team.  As the photographer says, "he's whipped."  I know the photographer thinks that the tweet about her uniform being the best wasn't his, but now, I'm not so sure. I'm sure twitter will be quiet for a few weeks.  Then, after the honeymoon is over, the serious stuff starts.  That will be interesting.

I agree.  After the little two step they were doing and then hugging afterwards, it looks as if she is annoyed with Jeremy and he has a bit of concern on his face like "what's wrong?"  I'd like to give her the benefit of the doubt and think that it was really early in the morning and maybe she was tired but she look like she had a bit of an attitude in some parts of the video. 

Reply-to:I watched the video again.  The problem is her.  Jeremy is feeling it, you can tell.  He might not be able to salsa but he was game.  She's very awkward around him.  There is no chemistry between them.  There is no underlying affection there from her.  She actually is acting with him like she would a stranger.  It's like she's going through the motions but that's it.

I watched the video again.  The problem is her.  Jeremy is feeling it, you can tell.  He might not be able to salsa but he was game.  She's very awkward around him.  There is no chemistry between them.  There is no underlying affection there from her.  She actually is acting with him like she would a stranger.  It's like she's going through the motions but that's it.   Reply-to:Agreed, that video looks horrible and I swear its like D is laughing in his face!!  He looks so awkward and uncomfortable in that vid.  It seems like everyone is appalled by this rush wedding except for Shockey.  Hey photographer, where is the honeymoon and how long will it be??  I think hes going to have a wake up call when its over.

Are you sure it was from tonight's game?  The Heat played away tonight?  If he was in red then that was before the wedding.

Reply-to:Someone posted a photo of Shockey at the Heat game tonight. He has already stopped wearing his wedding ring.

You're missing some important info about her.  It's been said and by a very reliable source that she answers his texts and does his tweeting for him.   That is a manipulator not just a young girl.   They get back together after splitting 3 months earlier and all of a sudden they're engaged. Yes she does show up when he needs someone. But, she is a user and a manipulator and her actions support that.  Yes, she is young, but she knows exactly what she's doing and most of us feel her goal is get her hands on his money.

Reply-to:WOW! To the person who posted the youtube wedding video..thank you. With that being said,  that is the most awkward newlywed couple Ive ever seen. I can completely understand nerves and not liking to be the center of attention HOWEVER on your wedding day...the day you become ONE with your SOULMATE those nerves unvoluntarily become secondary. There is nothing there between those two. I have to be honest, up until the actual wedding day, I truly believed SHE was hired. SHE only appeared at his down moments...i.e. 1.When the Saints let him go/drafted by last place team.2. Once he actually went to the Panthers he didnt mention her UNTIL they lost 4 or 5 in a row and then she stayed for her month long Halloween trip. (notice she wasnt there Thanksgiving and Christmas and he played in Tampa on her Bday and she was out and about in MIA w her gfs and didnt make a drive to be with mi amor)3. When Amani Toomer blasted him for being a bad teammate and a WORSE person....Which was immediatly followed by Sapp calling J out as the snitch. You can say they broke up after each of the above but I truly believed she eased his troubled times (as hired help) and as each passed....so did she.It appears J always goes to/hires HER (however you perceive it) at what he feels are his low moments. He feels the need for other peoples appraisal which is ashame being that he alone has accomplished such a great deal. As for HER, I just think she is young. Say what you want about $ and her wanting such BUT at 20 yrs young, what did YOU want? What was your perception of LOVE and life? I, myself ,had no clue. Dont be so judgemental on HER... just try to disect the situation as a whole. I myself truly believe that if J was signed back by the NYG or a team to his liking with similar calibar, he most definetly wouldnt be married right now and football wouldnt be secondary. He filled a void with something else. But the brutal honesty is....the wedding is over. Thats that.

Can you tell us what site the picture is posted on?  Thanks.

Reply-to:Someone posted a photo of Shockey at the Heat game tonight. He has already stopped wearing his wedding ring.

WOW! To the person who posted the youtube wedding video..thank you. With that being said,  that is the most awkward newlywed couple I've ever seen. I can completely understand nerves and not liking to be the center of attention HOWEVER on your wedding day...the day you become ONE with your SOULMATE those nerves unvoluntarily become secondary. There is nothing there between those two. I have to be honest, up until the actual wedding day, I truly believed SHE was hired. SHE only appeared at his down moments...i.e.

1.When the Saints let him go/drafted by last place team.

2. Once he actually went to the Panthers he didnt mention her UNTIL they lost 4 or 5 in a row and then she "stayed" for her month long Halloween trip. (notice she wasnt there Thanksgiving and Christmas and he played in Tampa on her Bday and she was out and about in MIA w her gf's and didnt make a drive to be with "mi amor")

3. When Amani Toomer blasted him for being a bad teammate and a WORSE person....Which was immediatly followed by Sapp calling J out as the snitch.

You can say they "broke up" after each of the above but I truly believed she eased his troubled times (as hired help) and as each passed....so did she.

It appears J always goes to/hires HER (however you perceive it) at what he feels are his low moments. He feels the need for other peoples appraisal which is ashame being that he alone has accomplished such a great deal. As for HER, I just think she is young. Say what you want about $ and her wanting such BUT at 20 yrs young, what did YOU want? What was your perception of LOVE and life? I, myself ,had no clue. Don't be so judgemental on HER... just try to disect the situation as a whole. I myself truly believe that if J was signed back by the NYG or a team to his liking with similar calibar, he most definetly wouldn't be married right now and football wouldn't be secondary. He filled a void with something else. But the brutal honesty is....the wedding is over. That's that.

Interesting that none of D.'s friends apparently showed up to the wedding. Maybe she does have friends that do more than get drunk with her - maybe they told her this marriage was a mistake, and she wrote them off. Maybe that's what all the recriminations and photos were about last week, and the retweet today.

Again, NO MENTION of "Mi amor"

Reply-to: I'm just relieved to know he has friends that stood up for what's right and boycotted this wedding. I was wondering if everyone in his life was a "yes" man. He needs people that care enough to tell him the truth, even if it's painful. I just read Ds retweet from Milk.  I wonder if that is meant for a friend of hers or is she trying to tell J about who he should and shouldnt have as friends?

Reply-to:"The last person they would tell" that's an interesting thing to say, Photographer; it that because as much as you dislike D., she doesn't care for you either (which means you have lots of friends here) am I right? I dont have an answer to the drinking question... it didnt cross my mind about a baby until someone mentioned it here. I would love to know as much as you all would, if not more. But like I said I would be the last person they would tell if that is the case. It would break my heart. I can handle the relationship and the marriage, and him believing this is the right thing and her following suite. But if she trapped him, and manipulated him, that would make for a long and definite term of 18 years.

A child would complicate things, at least for J.    Many of us don't think she was pregnant, at least at the time of the proposal because she was doing a lot of drinking.  A.G. tweeted her about a night of tequila consumption.  Now, it would aid her cause to get pregnant fast but who knows what she is thinking?   It just wasn't a good time for J to make such an important decision. He was at a low because of the free agency deal and then the snitch business just made things worse.  I would gather to say he was a little depressed?   I would tell anyone not to make life changing decisions when they are in a mental state like that.  I think she saw his weakness and capitalized on it.  I really hope for his sake the decision turns out good for him in the long run but I do have my doubts about it. 

Reply-to:I dont know many details of the pre nup. I feel that if he married her because they really believe this is true love, lasting forever, cant live without each other, want to be by your side for eternity. I can respect that. IF she is pregnant and used that as leverage to make things go this way, then I have no respect for that. 18 years would be the minimum time he would have to stay with someone who used a pregnancy, and a child to lock him down, because of course he would do the right thing for the child. If this fairy tale they are living ends up with a not so happy ending, at least they can part ways, and be done. With a child involved it will not be a part ways situation.

Was there a stipulation in the prenup about how long they had to stay married?  Is that why you mentioned 18 years?  Or were you thinking that they would stay together until the child was out of high school?  Either way, you're right, 18 years is a long time to stay in a relationship that is loveless.  God bless him.

Reply-to:I dont have an answer to the drinking question... it didnt cross my mind about a baby until someone mentioned it here. I would love to know as much as you all would, if not more. But like I said I would be the last person they would tell if that is the case. It would break my heart. I can handle the relationship and the marriage, and him believing this is the right thing and her following suite. But if she trapped him, and manipulated him, that would make for a long and definite term of 18 years.

Thank you so much for your candor.  Do you think she's not drinking because of a baby or that she's trying to keep her wits about her?  I wouldn't be surprised that she would be doing his tweeting for him.  Because the recent tweets make it seem like he's given up on football.  And, you say he's ready to play?  Apparently she has some fears if he plays for a team.  Maybe she thinks he won't be so dependent on her?  She needs to be in control, it's her nature.  It may sound silly but it's a fact that people who have small dogs like to manage.  And we all know she manages J.  Have a good day.

Reply-to:-Ok, he is not being drugged or tranquilized with a drug. She has the power between her thighs, and above her eyes. She is not my favorite person in the world, but she is not drugging him. He really is just a giver, he has a pattern of behavior with friends, acquaintances, and girls that this fits into. -I dont think the wedding date had anything to do with football. -Yes Carolina is still on the table, but he wants Miami. Only time will tell. I again dont think he sent the tweet saying her uniform is the best uniform come on now, very uncharacteristic.-His friends will be there when and if this turns for the worse. I know that FOR SURE. I will let you know that some of his friends did not show up in support of his wedding, and opted out of being groomsmen. Also if you notice only her family members were in hers. -I AM SO HAPPY THAT VIDEO WAS POSTED! I didnt think to take any, and if I had to bet on it her family is the one either selling it or supplying it. Yes that is her mother in the WHITE sparkly gown... It is an awkward scene to watch, he doesnt know how to salsa dance. I did notice again though... no drink for Dani...-RANDOM FACT: TK and 5 star island was also on an episode of Real Housewives of Atlanta.-Photographer-

Exactly, they have no chemistry.  It doesn't even look like they have strong feelings for each other.  Another reason why this marriage is doomed.  Of course she'll have what she wants by the end of this so it won't make any difference to her. 

Reply-to:Its frustrating when posters make an inflammatory remark like that, but dont back it up with real details - I guess some people just like attention. Glad our wedding photographer turned out to be the real deal!  I know D.s got game, but apart from keeping him drunk, I cant buy that shes slipping him anything else.  If the Panthers (or any other team) do sign him at the last minute, hell get drug tested - even shes smart enough to know that. Dont know how accurate my assessment is, but they have no chemistry IMO, from what I can see in that video. They look like 2 kids at a middle school dance who were forced to dance together, and would rather be anywhere else.  Awkward!

You're welcome.   I was hoping to see another post from the person who insinuated that she was drugging him.  I'm having a lot of problems accepting that.  I would like something more to go on than just some unknown person's inuendo.   The blogger implied she'd done that kind of thing before.   She's only 21, how many serious relationships can she have had?     The only thing I could accept is that she tries to keep him drunk because he's probably easier to control in that condition.   But, if he's going to have a chance to make an NFL team, he's going to have to cut out the drinking and get into shape so even that idea is flawed.  About the video, I noticed too that she wasn't very comfortable with him. It could be because she doesn't love him anymore, like she implied in that retweet in April.  It's going to be interesting, and I have to admit entertaining, to watch these 2 for the next several months.   I'm sure there are more surprises in store for them as well as us. 

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LMAO!  Thanks for finding the video.  Two things I noticed.  Jeremy was getting his drink on like he was at a bar and I was not feeling the love between he and D.  She did not look like a blushing bride but who knows what time during the evening this dance was taped.  I believe that was Esperanza all up in her new son-in-law personal space. 

Reply-to:There is a 4 minute video of the reception on you tube.  Its all in Spanish.  Honestly she has no rhythm and she cant dance a step.Check out the link.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wc74EXpo9FQ&feature=relmfu

 Never saw these 2 in action before, only in photos...they look very awkward together, and I'm not talking about the dancing. Looks like she's dancing with her father.  Shockey does a little Irish jig for a second. Oh, what if he had married a nice, respectable Irish WOMAN! Everything is awash in Latin culture.. isn't the Shockey family represented at all.. nothing Irish, nothing down-home Oklahoma? Even the people I can pick out of the video are her family. He's getting swallowed up.

There is a 4 minute video of the reception on you tube.  It's all in Spanish.  Honestly she has no rhythm and she can't dance a step.Check out the link.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wc74EXpo9FQ&feature=relmfu

A little snippet of an article about D. Check out the link below.

http://www.rightentertainment.com/?p=3581

I'm glad you agree with me.  I think this little girl is capable of ANYTHING.  And you are right about the hurried marriage.  She couldn't risk the fact that he could get picked up by a team.  It was either get married before minicamps or she would have to wait until after the season was over in 2013 to get married.  She didn't wan't to risk another major break up so she settled for the quicky wedding. It may not have been everything she wanted but she got her prize, the marriage.  Reply-to:Most prenuptial agreements DO NOT have a cheating clause. I am an attorney. The most common way that the agreements are voided is when one party misleads or defrauds the other party. I agree with the person who thinks that D plans to suck out money during the marriage so she would be set if everything goes to hell in a hand basket. I dont think Shockey is done in the NFL. Now that Dallas Clark is off the market, Shockey is the highest rated tight end available. I understand that Carolina will free up some cap space on June 1. The quick wedding date may have been driven by the thought that he will likely have to participate in OTAs shortly.

Reply-to:That may be true in your experience,  with your clients, but every couple I know that have any financial wherewithal have such a clause in their prenup. Most prenuptial agreements DO NOT have a cheating clause. I am an attorney. The most common way that the agreements are voided is when one party misleads or defrauds the other party. I agree with the person who thinks that D plans to suck out money during the marriage so she would be set if everything goes to hell in a hand basket. I dont think Shockey is done in the NFL. Now that Dallas Clark is off the market, Shockey is the highest rated tight end available. I understand that Carolina will free up some cap space on June 1. The quick wedding date may have been driven by the thought that he will likely have to participate in OTAs shortly.

OK you're going to have to be more forthcoming than that.   Come on give.  You can't post something like that and not say anything else. 

Reply-to:She is using something to get him in this tranquilized state. Hes not the only one she has done this kind of thing to. Seek the answers and you shall find...............

Reply-to:Okay, you can't leave us hanging with that kind of remark! What do you know, or at least point us in the right direction.  She is using something to get him in this tranquilized state. Hes not the only one she has done this kind of thing to. Seek the answers and you shall find...............

That is very possible and that could be her plan.  If I were him I wouldn't have agreed to have a clause like that in the prenup, knowing my tendencies.  But, if he is as whipped at our insider thinks, he probably agreed to it and falling right into her greedy little hands in the process.  I wouldn't put it past her to have him followed or spied on.   Wouldn't you love to be a fly on the wall in their "love nest" for just one day?

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Reply-to:You made me think of something; according to our photographer, Shockey has cheated in the past, and may feel the need to do it in the future. What if this is what D. is counting on? Most prenups have a "cheating clause" - if one party commits adultery and it can be proved, the conditions of the prenup are considered void, and the wronged party can go after everything.  IMO I think her twitter page hasnt changed because she doesnt need it to be changed any longer.   She has gotten what she wants and she has J right where she wants him.  As our insider says, hes whipped.  The prenup was not a big deal because she is planning on using her new position to get as much for herself as she possibly can.  (IMO).  Shes a schemer and shes quite capable of this kind of machiavellian plot.  A prenup is only for after the marriage ends.  If she bleeds his accounts and savings dry while theyre married and puts money in her name, the prenup is not necessary because she would already have taken his money.  If shes answering his texts for him what else is she doing?  Is she handling his money?  Has she gotten her name on his accounts yet? 

IMO I think her twitter page hasn't changed because she doesn't need it to be changed any longer.   She has gotten what she wants and she has J right where she wants him.  As our insider says, "he's whipped."  The prenup was not a big deal because she is planning on using her new position to get as much for herself as she possibly can.  (IMO).  She's a schemer and she's quite capable of this kind of machiavellian plot.  A prenup is only for after the marriage ends.  If she bleeds his accounts and savings dry while they're married and puts money in her name, the prenup is not necessary because she would already have taken his money.  If she's answering his texts for him what else is she doing?  Is she handling his money?  Has she gotten her name on his accounts yet? 

Reply-to:Let me make sure I'm understanding this; you sent a text to HIS phone, and SHE responded to it?-I am aware of the breakups due to cheating. However, I am also aware that she has always taken him back, so to say she wouldnt put up with it isnt necessary true. She has put up with it. She is only using it as leverage. -I do have an affection for J and dont care much for his wife.-It is very possible that she is sending out the tweets last night, she has responded to my text.

The forum dialogue for a while was focused on her being pregnant to explain the speed of the engagement and wedding, i.e. get it done before she starts to show. However, with the amount of drinking she was doing - A. Gonzalez sent her a tweet complimenting her on her tequila consumption - that idea was dismissed.

So... why are you bringing up it - have some news?

Reply-to:-Oh, good, you're back. If thet's the case it, it means she REALLY controlling him - I think your friend is in for alot of heartache. So on the 5 Star Island blog, the manager said this wedding "almost didn't happen" -his words, not mine. Is because one or both of them almost called it off?  

                           I am aware of the breakups due to cheating. However, I am also aware that she has always taken him back, so to say she wouldnt put up with it isnt necessary true. She has put up with it. She is only using it as leverage. -I do have an affection for J and dont care much for his wife.-It is very possible that she is sending out the tweets last night, she has responded to my text.

I agree.  If she was doing it, the tweets would be more effusive and everything would be punctuated with an exclamation point!!! 

Reply-to:  :No, I'm quite convinced all of this drivel is coming straight from Shockey's brain. He tends to be a slave to  his emotons and goes overboard on everything. You all have never considered its her posting on his account huh?

Reply-to:No, I'm quite convinced all of this drivel is coming straight from Shockey's brain. He tends to be a slave to  his emotons and goes overboard on everything. You all have never considered its her posting on his account huh?

You're right.  It boggles my mind when I think of her age, (20) at the time they met and how much sexual experience she had by that age.  She has to be pretty good in the sex department to keep his attention for this long.   She must have started in her early to mid teens.  I guess I was raised by a different type of mother but the fact that her parents encouraged her sexual relationship with him.  Maybe she wanted that lifestyle he's offering her so badly she was willing to do anything to get it.   Definitely not like I was raised.

Reply-to:Couples that have the real thing dont need to tell anybody, they just exude it. This marriage is based on superficial, selfish desires. We suspected it all along, and our wedding photographer has confirmed it, although he/she obviously has an affection for Shockey, and isnt comfortable being as blunt as we are.

Couples that have the real thing don't need to tell anybody, they just exude it. This marriage is based on superficial, selfish desires. We suspected it all along, and our wedding photographer has confirmed it, although he/she obviously has an affection for Shockey, and isn't comfortable being as blunt as we are.

I agree with you about his football comments.  He loves the game way too much to consider it secondary.  He's putting as brave a face on the fact that he's finished as he can.   If a team called him, he'd be on the next plane there.  It's such a shame to see someone who was once so proud of his career and accomplishments brought down to being a groveling wuss.  

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Reply-to:Yes well, he needs to rationalize not being pursued by any teams.. now its, "oh who cares about football", but 3 months ago it was ALL he cared about, and he wanted to "play for 4 or 5 more years." What's REALLY wierd is how one sided this relationship has become. He can't stop groveling, and she's just "meh."The hacking on D.'s Twitter was an ad for a diet pill. Ahhh...blinding love.  LOL.  Looks like S has been busy for the past 30 minutes tweeting about the best thing that has ever happened to him, football is secondary compared to D and hes found religion.   Also, it seems like Ds account has been hacked according to someone who tweeted him.

Reply-to: You certainly know him better than we do, but, as you mentioned in a previous post, you aren't close to D. YOU may not know this, but they have broken up several times in the past year, and she's made it clear that, at least twice, it was due to him cheating or at least her believing he was cheating. IDK that she would put up with it now that they're married. She strikes me as a real b@llbuster.  Several answers: I believe that when someone marries someone like Jeremy you turn a blind eye if they are unfaithful. You in that position convince yourself sex doesnt have anything to do with love. Now it could also be that she is very sexual and maybe he believes she is all he needs. Or maybe with out the career the opportunity isnt available. Like someone said we will see who knows she might cheat first. Weight loss could be due to stress or partying not drinking. Idk.No she is not a counselor and no money was exchanged its a respect thing with her

Thank you for your opinion and insights.  I was really just curious, what did they serve for dinner at the wedding and do you know who the caterer was?

Reply-to:Several answers: I believe that when someone marries someone like Jeremy you turn a blind eye if they are unfaithful. You in that position convince yourself sex doesnt have anything to do with love. Now it could also be that she is very sexual and maybe he believes she is all he needs. Or maybe with out the career the opportunity isnt available. Like someone said we will see who knows she might cheat first. Weight loss could be due to stress or partying not drinking. Idk.No she is not a counselor and no money was exchanged its a respect thing with her

My guess is the stress she put him through the last couple of weeks.  He's lost a lot of esteem in my eyes.  Not because he married her, but because he kowtows to her. 

Reply-to:The pic w/ Lucy is blurry, cant really see her face.  I dont think he can be faithful for long.  Why did he lose so much weight? 

Yes she was there.   Check the photobucket photo album.  She's in a pic between 2 men.  She's wearing a black and brown dress. 

Reply-to:OK, does anyone know if Lucinda was there?  And his favorite aunt and uncle?

If the person who wrote the post below is the actual insider who posted the pics then it sounds like you expect him to continue with his "bad boy" and womanizer lifestyle inspite of the fact that he's married.  Do you see him as remaining faithful to D?   Do you think he was serious when he took his vows to remain true or was he just reciting them and not really hearing what the words said? 

We'll wait and see. 

I still have to shake my head.  After reading the responses from our "insider" I am amazed first that a 20 year old, (she was 20 when they met and this whole thing started) is so experienced that she's able to manipulate a man who is 31 and very experienced with women.  ( I do know that experience with women doesn't translate into experience with relationships.)  They have nothing in common save for that physical attraction.   And second that J was so starved for companionship that he fell for a little girl's game and has let her dictate their relationship. 

When this whole thing blows up in their faces, the fireworks are going to be something to see, look out!

I read your other response below and thank you for your honesty.  Was he the assertive one in his other relationships?  Also, do you know if there was or wasn't a prenup signed?

Reply-to:I really dont know, he really is into her. I could see there being a correlatetion between the 2

Reply-to:Thanks; that's about what I thought. I do have one more question, and I appreciate that you're being so open. I realize we'll never know for certain, but in your opinion, if Shockey had been inundated with offers at the beginning of free agency in March, would there have been a wedding on Saturday?

Answers to questions: she definitely wears the pants, but I think only because he is desperate for companionship. His buddy and trainer (LOL) TJ is no longer in Miami with him. Albie has a full time job and a girlfriend. The general (lane) works and they live different lifestyles. I dont have much insight on their personal relationship, not many people in his life do. I guess they laugh and have fun together, but I think its more about a physical chemistry with them. She likes to travel, and drink. But sometimes I think hes the butt of her jokes... Hes the old man cramping her style. But thats just how I view it. Shes impressed with his status and name, and hes impressed with her looks. She is his fountain if youth so to speak, and hes her answer to a better life.

Reply-to:His bye week with the Panthers was spent with D. in Ashville - pics are still on her Twitter. When was his bye week last season? If he went home then and hooked up with that girl, perhaps. Who knows...

The bye week was when they went up to Asheville.  How can you forget that infamous "in bed" pic?

Reply-to:When was his bye week last season? If he went home then and hooked up with that girl, perhaps. Who knows...

Do you really like her hair?  I think it makes her look washed out.  She's much more striking as a brunette, IMO anyway.

Reply-to:Yes, that dark haired guy in the pics with the cigar is James, his brother. Do not like her dress, but I do like her hair. We shall see how this works out...

Thanks for replying.  I honestly don't think the timeline can be right for it to be his.  If she's due at the end of June that puts the conception somewhere around the end of September.  He was definitely in NC then.  Unless she was in NC with him then it would be kind of impossible to believe.  He didn't go back to Miami at all until the season was over.   Without evidence or confirmation there's nothing to be said but I will say IF it is his child, I hope he does right by it.  He hates his father because his father basically abandoned him and his brother and he would be no better than that if he does the same with this child.  God bless this girl and her unborn baby.  

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No she is in Florida. Dani knows of her condition. It has never been confirmed or denied on it being his from my understanding. But I do believe it was an issue prior to the nuptials on Saturday.

Reply-to:So this girl is in NC?  I wonder, if the baby is his, does D know about it?  I can't see her sharing him with a baby that isn't hers.   That could become quite a volatile situation if that's the case

read the blogs below.  there are two sites, one on photobucket  http://s1158.photobucket.com/albums/p601/onthegrind88/
 and the other on this site: http://worldoftk.com/index.php?option=com_zoo&task=item&item_id=55&Itemid=101

Reply-to:Where are the pictures posted of the wedding?  Did Lucinda go?

So this girl is in NC?  I wonder, if the baby is his, does D know about it?  I can't see her sharing him with a baby that isn't hers.   That could become quite a volatile situation if that's the case. 

Reply-to:First of all the girl isnt due until the end of June. Not any day secondly it was never said to be his. Thirdly Dani did leave, and come back then left again due to what was believed to be his cheating and went to the islands for Christmas.

Reply-to: Didn't she leave and come back then leave again?

If this ex, whomever she is got pregnant, she got pregnant in September if the baby is due any day.  D left Charlotte in November, because I remember the pic of the 3 Christmas stockings she hung up at his place.   So, who is the ex and when were they together?

Reply-to:I heard his ex is pregnant by him due any day and got pregnant just after D left Charlotte last year

Reply-to: From what I heard the girl won't say who the dad is, I know someone who knows her. I don't think she is an person anyone heard about. Maybe its the insider???
The blog with the timeline mentioned that his ex is pregnant.  Which ex is this?  and are you sure the baby his Js?

The blog with the timeline mentioned that his ex is pregnant.  Which ex is this?  and are you sure the baby his Js? 

Reply-to:I heard his ex is pregnant by him due any day and got pregnant just after D left Charlotte last year

At least you've restored my respect for his friends.  I really thought that no one cared enough to say anything.   You're right all you can do is support him and if the time comes when this marriage explodes, he will need good, supportive friends then too.   Don't let her cut you all out of his life.

Reply-to:This is what he wants.

Reply-to:I get that HIS clock is ticking, but surely you see the folly of him marrying a 21 year old who acts more like a child than a woman. Did any of his friends try to talk him out of this? I think his clock was just ticking loudly. And she jumped on the opportunity. They believe this is the real deal, and only time will tell.

Reply-to:      There you go.  http://s1158.photobucket.com/albums/p601/onthegrind88/
No family pics, I am sorry.
where did you see the wedding pictures posted???

Reply-to:Okay, sounds like you know them but are not best buds. Don't worry no psychic questions. I would like to know this: can you explain the warp-speed timeline of this reunion, from months of tweeting recriminations back and forth, to getting back together and engaged by April 5th, and married less than 6 weeks later. Pregnancy has been discussed and dismissed by most on this forum. Why didn't they take their time and work on the relationship? They obviously have some serious issues. You've obviously seen them interact together - what is your assessment of their relationship? I like most people so not know Dani closely, I also can not read jeremys mind but I am closer to him

Reply-to:If that's the case, why did she remove her engagement avatar and replace with a single on May 15, when her angry posts appeared?The post about bullshit wasnt about Jeremy its about an ex who contacted her prior to the wedding. As was the incident at liv when they slept separately. I was more suprised to see Albies girlfriend at the.wedding more than him. No honeymoon yet because family and friends were still in town. Esperanza was definitely dressed more noticeable than Lucy. But all in all it was a so wonderful event.

Reply-to:I know, right? She went lighter, so he went darker? If they were attending a blacktie affair, I think the dress would be fine, but I don't like it as a wedding gown. I do agree with the earlier post about Shockeys hair.  I think it is darker.  Did he dye it or use Grecian formula?  About her dress- I think its too much dress for her petite frame with all that ruching and ruffles.  She would have done better going with a more classic design. 

He may be happy to call her his wife but if her twitter page is any indication she doesn't reciprocate.  She still have her magenta lipstick avatar up and she hasn't deleted her posts about "not buying his bullsh*t."   And it is interesting that they are not on a honeymoon trip.  I would have thought she would have had him take her to some exotic and expensive location.   Maybe she couldn't wait to start making him regret his decision. 

Reply-to:Well, Shockey just surfaced on Twitter. So happy to call DC12 my wife. Movie night and so in love!Theyre at home watching movies? No honeymoon? Strange behavior from a guy who loves to travel - maybe hes broke already!

I do agree with the earlier post about Shockey's hair.  I think it is darker.  Did he dye it or use Grecian formula? 

About her dress- I think it's too much dress for her petite frame with all that ruching and ruffles.  She would have done better going with a more classic design. 

Reply-to:Oh if only Shockey could say the same! Someone posted that garrett Hartley got married the same night. Nope, that wedding was called off and did not happen.

Well, Shockey just surfaced on Twitter. "So happy to call DC12 my wife. Movie night and so in love!"

They're at home watching movies? No honeymoon? Strange behavior from a guy who loves to travel - maybe he's broke already!